11 'Key' Signs Your Dog Loves You, According to a Canine Behaviorist

A dog's love for their humans is undeniable, but exactly how do these loyal companions show their affection? Luckily, there is more than one gesture to show their affection. Dr. Emma Scales-Theobald, canine behaviorist and resident dog expert at Canine Cottages, shared the 11 "key" signs dogs use to express their love. "Understanding your dog's behavior can deepen your bond and help you respond to their emotional needs," Scales-Theobald said in a press release. "Knowing the difference between affection and stress signals ensures you're tuned into their well-being." While many of the signs listed below signify a dog's love for their humans, it's also important to note that many gestures could have several meanings. Scales-Theobald emphasized the importance of paying attention to a dog's body language to distinguish between love and potential signs of stress. Newsweek reached out to Scales-Theobald for additional comment.

Physical Affection

Petting dogs creates a bond between them and humans and when canines specifically seek this physical interaction, it reinforces that relationship. They seek this affection to feel closer to their humans. Not only does petting strengthen a bond, but it also stimulates the release of oxytocin, also known as the love hormone, according to an article from Florida's Dunedin Animal Medical Center. This hormone fosters the bond and trust between dogs and humans. Dopamine is also released, creating happiness and satisfaction while lowering levels of stress and anxiety.

Nudging

Dogs will sometimes nudge a person's hand or arm after they stop petting them. This is their way of telling that person they are in no way, shape or form done with the physical affection. They want the pets and love to continue. The way a dog will nudge depends on the personality, Scales-Theobald said. Sometimes it will be playful and persistent, or perhaps just a quick gentle touch. To reassure a dog that their affection is reciprocated, respond positively to the nudges.

Sitting Close By

Where a dog decides to sit will show people their level of trust and affection. Some will want to be right on top of you, while others will be sitting next to you or nearby, all of which are indicators of comfort level.

Leaning

Perhaps you're petting a dog and their body weight starts leaning into you. This is their way of seeking closeness and security. The press release said it occurs when they want reassurance or because they enjoy the physical connection and want to pass the message along. The same goes for if they are sitting on your feet. Not only does it show their affection, but they're subtly "claiming" you as theirs.

Belly Rubs

While rolling on their backs and exposing their bellies often means they have a level of trust with you, it can also mean they're showing submission or anxiety. To tell the difference, look at other signs. Wagging tails and relaxed posture are signs of love. A dog will pin their ears back, and have their tail tucked or body tensed up if they're anxious or submissive.

Following You

A canine who loves you will want to be with you 24/7, which is often referred to as "velcro dog syndrome." This means following you from room to room. The behavior is especially common with dog breeds with strong loyalty traits.

Sharing Toys

Toys are valuable to many dogs. If a dog brings you their toy and shares it with you, consider yourself lucky. They aren't just inviting you to play. They are showing you trust and affection.

Asking to Play

Aside from sharing toys, a dog asking to play with you by bowing and wagging their tail is expressing their excitement to be in your presence. Responding to their request will not only strengthen your bond but will keep your dog mentally and physically stimulated.

Jumping Up

A natural way for dogs to greet people is by jumping. It gives them a chance to get closer to your face. This is their way of connecting with their humans. However, the affectionate gesture can sometimes be unsafe. Owners should train their dogs to greet people calmly.

Sleeping Position

Where a dog chooses to sleep gives owners a clear indication of how their furry friends feel about them. Because dogs are most vulnerable when sleeping, if they decide to be near you, it means they feel safe and comfortable. They might choose to snuggle on your lap or be within your reach. Both are signs of their love and trust.

Licking

Finally, dogs will sometimes lick you to show their love for you. However, be cautious as licking does not automatically mean love. Licking can signify they are in pain or feeling anxious. To understand the difference, look into their body language. For example, if their ears are pinned back or their body is tense, then they're likely not feeling their best.

Return the Love

Dogs give us several signals of their love for us and, as owners, it's important to show our feelings in return. Play with them when they ask, pet them and snuggle them. And don't forget, a simple "I love you" goes a long way. A study by Canine Cottages revealed that a dog's heart rate will increase by about 46.2 percent when they hear those three magic words.